You're a born leader. You always have been and you always will be. So when someone comes to you now, asking that you help take charge of a difficult project that just isn't getting off the ground properly, you'll be more than happy to do it. Just be sure what you're doing isn't interfering with your 'real' job. Paychecks are a wonderful thing, too. Your friends, and those you consider peers, have been evading a certain issue for what you consider to be no good reason. What you don't know is that they've been trying to assess your situation and help without arousing anyone's suspicions.
Interesting. MONEY?! P has surgery in like 1 month and 2 weeks! holy shitballs. I am SO excited and scared and like woah all at the same time. I am really concerned with what will take place at work once he isn't there at all and I am doing the stuff. Well, I kind of do the stuff now, just not so much paperwork. I guess it will be fine. I am concentrating on being hella excited for him and all the happiness I know this brings to him. CONGRATULATIONS!!