July 4th, 2010

tea time

Love or be loved?

Do you think a romantic relationship can ever be equal or will one partner always love and/or compromise more than the other? Given the choice, would you rather be the one who loves more or is loved more?

I believe it is only a fairy tale that we can all love equally. We can be equal partners in a relationship but no two people love exactly the same. It's not logical to expect someone to love you as much as you love them and who can measure love anyway?! In my experience, and in my friends, I have seen that one person does usually compromise more than the other but I don't look at this as a sign of loving someone any more or less.
Personally, i would like to be giving more love. It makes me feel like a good partner when I'm doing all that I can to please the person that I'm with and when it suits my desires