Is there something wrong with spending a lot of time with my ex? I really enjoy her company and we have a great time together. To some people I know it's strange that we'd spend so much time together but whatever. Nothing relationship-ish happens and I don't think we have those yearning feelings of wanting to rekindle what we once had. It's a new friendship. and it makes me happy.
As for Mel, things are great with us.. they always are. It's a good thing, we are a good thing, a great team. She's amazing and patient and all the things that I don't think I am. But I'd give her the world. and she knows it.